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"Hiring Elizabeth is undoubtedly one of the best investments I’ve ever made in myself...Very quickly into our work, a man entered my life that was everything on my list, but even better.

Without Elizabeth’s work, I likely would have behaved in my typical anxious avoidant ways and harmed the budding relationship. Thanks to Elizabeth, I was able to understand the root cause of these tendencies, and show up with my partner as my best self.

For some context, I love personal development work, I’ve done a ton of it and am widely considered the wise one that my friends go to for advice. I also worked in the matchmaking and coaching industry before, and have had the privilege of working with the most respected people in the space.  They were all excellent, but what Elizabeth offers is truly something I hadn’t seen from any of them. 

I not only got the relationship of my dreams, my anxiety is gone and I feel more empowered in every area of my life."

(She met her FIANCE within 2 months of coaching)

-Kaitlin, 30, Entrepreneur

"Working with Elizabeth was the best, best best decision I have ever made! It was an investment in myself that has forever impacted me in only amazing ways! I am forever grateful to you Elizabeth!

I never thought I’d find someone like him. I look at him and tell him I just feel so lucky. 

He accepts me for who I am. I don't have to be someone I’m not. I felt before like I had to be so perfect and not show any emotion and yes everything.

In the past I had been attracting a boy. And M. is a man. 

It was nice to be held accountable. And delving into the inner work, I didn't realize some of the things from my upbringing and my lived experiences had impacted how I was dating, presenting myself, and even perceiving myself because I thought something was wrong with me, it was always me, me, me.

My friends and family they see me and they tell me "you just look so different, you just look happy."

(She met her now HUSBAND within 3 months of coaching)

-Sara, 24, Psychologist

"I hired Elizabeth after 4 years single. [I had] been having a pattern... of men either being avoidant or not wanting to commit. I felt this was the missing piece to the puzzle.

I got clarity on what I want/who I to attract in my life. Clarity on triggers related to older wounds/attachment style. I had a shift in mindset of attracting those qualities I’m looking for instead of trying to fit into what I think my partner wants/needs.

I can enjoy the process of attracting my ideal partner instead of only trying to control focus on the outcome with one particular person I’m dating. 

I feel more confident in who I am and what I need/deserve to be happy."

(she met the love of her life shortly after & they've been traveling the world together ever since "We're meant to be partners in life, such a beautiful feeling!")

(She met her now partner within 2 months of coaching)

-Caro, 31, Interior Designer

"I found myself a relationship!...I definitely caught a lot of my triggers early on and didn't act on it. It's just been very easy, peaceful, and comfortable. He always shows up for me, is consistent, makes me feel so special and reminds me how much he cares about me everyday. We are Italy together this week and he asked me to be his girlfriend! It's so odd not needing to ask for anything, it just comes with him! It sounds very cliche, but yes! :)"

(Update: she's married to him!)

Phobe, 30, Finance

"I signed up with you and then within a week or two I started dating a guy, and during the entire duration I was dating him, and I'm still dating him. He’s a very good fit for me. I’m more on the masculine energy side, I found I needed someone that was ok with me being more in my masculine, and sussed if we were right for each other out in coaching and we’ve been together for 8 months! I was repeating to myself “I’m ok the way I am,” and with coaching I started to live it more and not have those experiences with men where they were just pursued because of looks or initial perceptions...  If you are frustrated in any way shape or form, you probably don't know why you are frustrated [with dating], you don’t even know what the root causes are, and you need to understand those so you can work with them. We aren’t taught how to date, we aren’t taught how to be in those environments... And with trial and error you are not setting yourself up for success... I knew there was some self worth stuff happening and the weekly sessions working on that in a concentrated way was super beneficial. Also, I had been out of dating for 10 years, so having you weekly to be like 'hey this is happening is this normal should I push back, should I not'… that was super super valuable to me." 

-Vicki, 34, CEO & Founder

"It's such a relief not to feel the anxious tendencies rise up, and to be able to enjoy dating and getting to know someone without the exhausting anxiety and desperation to be seen/chosen... I felt like you told me what I needed to hear which was good. I loved feeling like I was actually doing something practical to clear the emotional blocks and heal, rather than just talking about why I have those patterns. I think the techniques were really helpful and worked well. I feel so much calmer and it's refreshing to be attracted to someone who treats me with respect and consideration (instead of being physically repelled by someone who is kind and consistent). I feel more confident in my ability to attract good things and good people into my life - I also feel less reliant on external validation."

Lexie, 29, Health Coach

Within 4 months of coaching!

Rochelle, 29, USA

"I have a boyfriend! Things are going SO well, like a God send!" 

"I began this program feeling heartbroken and uncertain about why I consistently attracted emotionally unavailable men who did not share my desire for a long-term relationship, marriage, and eventual children. Historically, I tended to date men whom I believed I could "fix" or remained in relationships with emotionally unavailable partners, hoping they would eventually choose me for marriage or that I could change them. Taking a leap of faith, I enrolled in Elizabeth's incredible coaching program.

After approximately a year of working with her and engaging in extensive healing work based on her suggestions and teachings, she gently reminded me to trust the process and overcome any mental blocks I had regarding the men I was dating. Additionally, she provided valuable advice to navigate challenges I encountered. Eventually, I met an incredible guy, and our dating experience has been wonderful. He is emotionally available and embodies everything I have been searching for and more. I am embracing the relationship, letting my guard down, and falling for him. Moreover, I am able to fully embrace my feminine side because he exudes masculinity. I highly recommend her, and will forever cherish the lessons I learned from Elizabeth's program."

 -Nicole, 33, USA

"We're expecting our first baby"

"There was a period of time in my life where I was in a serious relationship, and I knew it wasn’t going well for him and I. After my break up with this man, I went on a 2-3 year journey of becoming curious with hookups, dating, and everything in between. It wasn’t until a few heartbreaks later, that I realized my patterns I had with my ex had also carried over into my single life. I was unable to attract the man I’ve always wanted and deserved. I knew in my heart my intentions were pure, but something was off for me, and I couldn’t seem to find what I was looking for.

With a lot of research, help from loved ones and friends, and ultimately being done dealing with my own misery, I started to look into coaching. It was something that always interested me, and because of my past and a lot of trauma I’ve endured, I felt like it was time to dive in.

I soon then found Elizabeth and her coaching programs on Instagram. The process for me was intimidating at first, because I was scared to dive into something that would ultimately change my life forever, in the direction I’ve always wanted it to go. Little did I know when I began with Elizabeth, it did exactly that and more.

Elizabeth offered me the space to be myself in the exact way I arrived. With all of my trauma, my flaws, and everything in between. The version of myself I knew and wanted to become was available to me here, with her guidance and the tools to make it all possible. 

A couple months into our sessions and diving into the work that she provided for me, I was actively dating and able to feel confident in doing so. As I actively dated, I got to know the men I was dating, and felt more secure in myself and my standards.

Dating became easier and easier as time went on, thanks to Elizabeth’s guidance. I soon then met the man of my dreams in an unexpected place. There was something in me in that moment that knew he was the one. 

Fast forward to Elizabeth and I’s third month of coaching together, this man and I were now in a fully committed relationship. I was able to take my time with this man, and felt fully confident in my feminine in the process of us meeting and moving forward. This man and I are now expecting our first baby this coming year, and we couldn’t be more excited to start a family together. If it wasn’t for Elizabeth and her coaching, I wouldn’t be where I’ve dreamt of today."

-Kimmy, 29

"Dear Elizabeth, 

I cannot stress enough how grateful I am I met you!

When I first started reading through your precious materials, as you know, I was processing a recent break-up and I felt I was running in circles: I was seeing the same patterns with men repeating all over again, I clearly saw them, yet I had absolutely no idea how to break them. I had put a lot of effort and tried multiple things, but my approach was a bit all over the place and wasn't working at all. 

What I needed was some clear guidance, someone who could help me identify the reasons underlying those patterns and teach me the techniques and tools to deal with them - and this is exactly what your masterclass provided me with and it felt so healing and empowering. 

Thanks to your teachings I unearthed things inside me I wasn't even aware of as well as things I had completely forgotten about or dismissed. Yet, these events forged beliefs inside me, which in turn were driving my relationships with men.

Also, you shed light on the deep meaning of masculine and feminine as well as how certain behaviours women have may emasculate men. I had observed these very same behaviours in the dynamics between my parents, I could feel those were unhealthy dynamics and I definitely didn't want to replicate them, yet I didn't know what were the healthy alternatives. Your masterclass showed me what are the fundamentals of healthy relationships and how to identify a man with whom I can build one. 

I could go on forever describing how precious your work is and has been for me - thank you so much for what you do, it is so valuable :)" 

-Silvia, 31, Italy

It is the hand of God that brought me to Elizabeth Karina Drake for coaching. I did not understand men. I had two unsuccessful yet serious relationships which came close to marriage before they went up in flames (for lack of better phrasing ) - ending in similar ways. 

Elizabeth gets to the root of her coachees' essence and helps them uncover their highest self through deep inner work and consciousness. Her expertise in male psychology makes it seamless and easy to share ongoing relationship hurdles and overcome them with ease, and with her empowering support.

By putting effort into learning about the intersection of how I show up vs. the psychology of men, I soon became the champion of my own life, dating life, and overall relationship with men. I am sure I would not be where I am today without her coaching! I am full of joy mastering my femininity and my faith.

All these years, I did not fully understand that change and attracting the man I want starts with me. I had behaviors, mindsets, and ways of communicating that were not creating polarity and was a main contributor to not spotting or attracting the right man for me. 

Not only has my dating life improved, but my entire life has improved, including my faith in God. I feel deeply now we are only ever where we are because God wants us to be there, and I am a part of God's plan! 

May God continue to bless Elizabeth and the work she is doing for women!

-Felicia A Iyamu, Germany, author, model, HR 

"She helped guide me through my triggers that would come up. I noticed red flags with this guy, and her guidance helped confirm that he was not good for me. Having the courage to stand up for myself, talk in person, and completely cut him off was a huge turning point for me as it is not something I would have done in the past.

I am learning to trust my intuition more, work through my triggers, and work with my inner child."

-Nicole, 29

"Elizabeth as my personal coach was so easy to work with. She really tailors her program to fit her clients' needs and she truly listens. I appreciated her insights and empathetic approach as a catalyst for change.
When working with Elizabeth, self-empowerment was a major aspect of my transformation as I was able to gain the confidence to embody and embrace my innate feminine energy. Together we worked through a deep exploration of past experiences and examined behavioral patterns and inner dialogue in relation to self, dating, and about my future goals. She is someone who I trust on my journey to support authentic healing work, which for me was a worthy investment in becoming the best version of myself!"

-Olivia, 31, Teacher

"I can honestly say that had I have gone through this coaching experience earlier in my life, I believe that I would not have had to go through a divorce, and other toxic relationships before then... Elizabeth does not have a textbook cookie cutter approach to her coaching.  It is all individualized, and she always had the session prepared specifically for me before the coaching call each week.  I also knew that if I were struggling with something or had questions in-between coaching sessions that she would be there for me, which was very helpful and reassuring."

-Brianna, Therapist

"Despite the investments in therapy and my personal healing I still had a lot of work to do and most of my dating experience was filled with anxiety, insecurity, attachment to some men after just seeing them once and most of all feeling terrified of being seen, or showing my vulnerability.

The good men who were interested in me, were not exciting to me and I couldn't see or spot healthy behaviour, or find it attractive. I just didn't understand men, what I could expect from them in terms of having my needs met (because I never had the experiences of having my needs met), how to behave around them, what they needed from me and how to be in a good relationship with them.

My life has changed in so many areas. I feel that I built a foundation of skills to look after myself in life. Finding an inner strong core, an understanding of myself and different parts of me better, understanding when I am in "panic mode" and being able to regulate my nervous system and supporting myself, taking care of and loving myself, setting boundaries and communicating. This has improved all of my relationships. I am closer with my family and friends because of this but also managed to cut out things and people that do nothing for me without guilt. I discovered some of my core negative beliefs that have been impacting me my whole life and started on the healing journey for them. My confidence and self acceptance and expression has increased so much and I am comfortable with who I am. 

In the dating area, I saw almost instant results. By tweaking and shifting a few things by becoming and behaving like a high value woman, I got a completely different treatment from men. Men were finally wooing me, a man flew to my city just to spend a few hours with me, they cooked me dinners and took me on nice dates. I felt relaxed and much more confident than before. They were not doing this to try to get something from me (sex), but because they were serious about getting to know me, and showing me they were a great option by treating me well." (Continued in Pt 2 ...)

"I learned to remove my shell and how to communicate what I need in a non defensive way that they listen to... I went from feeling aversion towards men to loving them!

Around a month into the program a man came into my life, my now boyfriend, and what feels like my soulmate. I am forever grateful for being on the program while we were dating, because I had resistance and self sabotaging tendencies that I had to work very hard on and together with the support from Elizabeth I managed to work through them. One very strong moment in the program was when I had my 1-1 individual call with Elizabeth. Prior to the call I had so much resistance and fear to letting him into my heart, which showed up as me shifting back and forth between being incredibly attracted to him and suddenly feeling unattracted, and all kinds of thoughts that my brain produced to protect myself. I understood it was a protection mechanism because my body was not lying, I felt a very strong connection, pull and attraction to him in my body. But my head was often spinning with all kinds of sabotaging thoughts. Right after the session with her, I could physically feel how the resistance had disappeared and my heart was open, and that was a turning point for me.

Not long ago I was flipping through my diary and found a page where I described my dream man. My boyfriend is everything of that and more, I could not imagine a person like him before I met him. We are made for each other. He is masculine and driven but deep and reflective, sensible, caring and emotionally intelligent. He is handsome, sexy, classy, fun, we share so many similar experiences in our lives, values and our future vision together. We experience life on the same level. He treats me so well, makes an effort, listens, makes me feel special and we're planning our future together with marriage and kids. I could not imagine being in this relationship and I wake up grateful every single day, and truly appreciate him and everything he adds to my life, to me it is invaluable." 

-Ilona, 33, Europe